LIFE HUMBLE MOMENTS

I never heard the biggest wedding in town
But have gotten the biggest heart
Full of love to share with wifey

I never heard the best of the best
Venue for my wedding ceremony
Talkless of an exotic venue reception
But have got a home blissful enough
To enable the environments in living a fulfilled life

I never heard the support
Of those who I reverend
And held high so high in my life
But you no what God sends human
In angel form that came through for me

As some people took
Me getting married as a scam
But God has His way
Of showing up for His own
That men are not what they profess to be

With empty baskets of unfulfilled promise
Who seats backs and wants to celebrate one failure
But they forgotten so soon that God isn’t a man
And never acts as man does as man are spices
That never practice what they preach at all

FOR ALL THE MEN OUT THERE.

Family is consistent because it makes one understand the importance of family with the roles its entails, if you see a home where the children are always winners check up on the wife.

 

A broken man from a broken family can turn around in 360 degrees to become a great dad to his family, building a great family and keeping them together not building a broken family of which such a dad is a product of.

 

A dad must do good in the right sense you cannot buy your way into that, but you must do the right thing in the right way by living your life to serve, help and provide.

 

The world has changed, what is our role as men? Being high on the mountain is a slippery slope and is so lonely up there, so as men you must go through a character transformation changing your life from this point A to that point of B.

 

A hero to someone, men are built to be such a one but a hero is someone who looks out for someone and stays on someone until the best fashion of those he is looking out for comes up out of the inside man in these men.

 

Often times life humbles us and derails us to the point of becoming the real us, as men and none of all these can happen without the family. Society is really forcing success down our throats being so self-centered lovers of ourselves, we all want to be followed and lead and never willing to do anything to be influential.

 

What are your motives for giving and the intent of your heart when it comes to leading?

Who teaches you how to be a man, fame is a monster we have a lot of battles and roads we have to walk in giving life, in other words, individual challenges and then fame magnify the problems we face as men and humans.

 

· Stay on your knees

· Watch your mentor

· But stay on God never leave Him for any man.

 

Better Man Event...to be a better man take all you listen to and hear to heart. Dreams without goals won't take you nowhere make sure on the road to achieving your dreams you must fly, discipline comes to play here without consistency you'll never finish and then leave room for learning.

LOVE STAYS

I pray it stays
And understand
The rough edges
That comes with being loved
I pray it stays

To last till in the nighttime
Filled with laughter and understanding
I pray it stays strong
When the reality of life
Comes knocking at your door

When love fades out of your eyes
I pray it stays
Weathering the storms
Calming the days of stormy events
When the billows come boiling high

I pray stays
Till the night time of our life
Long enough till old age
Long enough to come to fulfillment

NOT A BEG AFFECTION

An affection begged
Won't last till nighttime
You are priceless
With a high-value price you are
You are meant to be pampered by someone

Who doesn't make you beg for their affection
Beyond affection time
As out of sight is out of mind
In the midst of the busyness of the day
The heart does remember

The one that makes such a heart beats
And is never have a second thought
Of where you stand with them.
isn't far from the heart
That cares and wants it badly

You deserve someone
Who takes you and is there
For you in good and bad times
Never far away
Not too far to be out of sight

Always closer like the air
And the smell of the body odor of yourself
You deserve a relationship
Not a beg kind of relationship
With someone who got you

For real as you also do.

THE WAITING PERIOD: BEING SINGLE

Being single
Is a period of time
To discover your purpose
Before getting into being in a relationship
The period of singleness

Is a period of self-discovery
Getting more acquitted
To God and with yourself
As the first step in living
A fulfilled life is knowing God

From the moment you discover these two
The better life becomes sweet
Each moment of singleness
Should be a moment
Lived well enough

To be cherished for life
With smoothen memory
Not just a memory
But a life living inside of you
Being single is not a curse

And shouldn't be a time of pressure
Is better to be late
And to be happy all life long
Because been married
Is a long-time contract

Singleness shouldn't be
A time of frivolities
Chasing this chasing that
It should be a time of being set apart
From the heat of chasing this or that

A fulfilled single life
Is a life not controlled my emotions and feelings
But a life controlled by God
Where your emotion doesn't control you
Not can be a blessing

But being single is a blessing
That privacy with God is the key
A time to be self fish not to yourself
But to the ones who like
To keep you around just

Because of the benefit
They get been around you
I call these sets of ones
Parasites living under the host
Is time to pour into yourself

In other words self-development
The period of single is about
You developing yourself
In all areas spiritually, financially, emotionally
Mentally, psychologically
And so on...

LOVE, RESPECT N APPRECIATION

When respect is gone love cannot grow
Respect is the fuel
The drives and keeps its engine going
Without respect
There is no place for

To flourish talkless being grown
An unappreciated love
Will die the death of being neglect
And taken for granted
A loved one needs to see

He or she deserved to be
Loved as she shows out
Respected inspite been
The women in the relationship
As he opinions to do count
Likewise appreciating being one self is the key.

BEING MARRIED SHOULDN’T MAKE YOU LOSE YOUR DREAMS

Never stop being you
Never stop chasing your dream
Never stop becoming the phenomenal you
Never stop at becoming what you desire to be
Never allow anything to make lose you

Getting married shouldn’t
Make you lose you
You have goals and childhood dreams
That you want to see and work to achieve
And nothing by any means should change that
 
The fact that things change
Status changes environment evolve with time
Many things has change over this past years of your life
Grew from the yesterday you are
To today where you find yourself
 
Make sure in all you do
That you never forget yourself
While long you have taken care of someone else
As you make everyone your priority
Also make you yourself your own priority
 
Because the day
You wake and realise
You’ve lived all your life
Chasing after taking care of others
While long you’ve forgotten taken care of you
 
Live your dream
Follow you to the letter
Do what makes you happy and brings you joy
Pick up that little book where you write
Everything you want to do with your life
 
Marriage shouldn’t stop you
From living your own life
You got a life too remember
So as you are busy trying to make your marriage work
Never forget to make your life work
 
Make your dream your priority too
As you make your home a priority
Make your goals realistic and workable
As you labour to keep up to your spouse
Make yourself count and well enough
 
As you toiled night and day dust to dawn
In working towards becoming a good wife/husband
Never forget the you that you were before marriage
Make sure you don’t lose you in all
Being married shouldn’t make you lose your dreams

IT DOESN’T MATTER WHERE OR HOW

Sometimes…
Fate brings two people together
In such an incredible way
That some stories
Are even hard to believe
 
No one ever knows
Where exactly the two lonely
Paths will cross
Either by sheer chance or
Through higher providence
 
All the puzzle pieces fall
Into place to form one big picture
And then there’s nothing
Anyone can do about it
It doesn’t matter where nor how
 
Just one day
Fate will come visiting
And this special being
Will just appear from the blues
And give our sky beautiful blue colours
 
The colours of love
In its purest form
Transforming it in just a moment
Adding life to a dead gloomy life of ours
It doesn’t matter where or how
 
So when love comes visiting
In form of fate visiting
Open up your heart for love
To love you for whom you are
Never what you’ve been through in the past

IS THE BIBLE

God's unfailing Word
That outlive man's word
Is the Bible that heals the wounded heart
The hope of the world today
Is the Bible
 
That transforms a broken heart
Making life a new giving it a meaning
Is the Bible man's compass to Heaven
A guide to living God's lifestyle for believers
Is the Bible
 
Blessed in every Words in it
Information that seeks the heart of God
Bringing life enternal to its readers
Life to the bones and flesh
Eternal Word of God that never fadeth away
 
Is the Bible
All in all
The answer to man searchable question
The answer to the world's problem
The forever living Word is the Bible
 
Inspired by the Spirit of God
Lead the Spirit written by Holy men of God
Letters to pierce the soul
Dividing the heart asunder
Is the Bible.
 
 

A BIG WEDDING IS COMING TO TOWN

There is an event coming
To town and it with a shake
The whole place where mankind is found
From the rural areas to the urban center
Everyone we have a feel for this wedding

There hasn't been none like it
The high and low we witness it
As it we translate and transform
The landscape of humanity
A big wedding coming to town

The sound is so loud
Chanting so evoke in its announcement
The sound of melodious tunes
Everyone is proclaiming
The biding to be at this feast

Were men and women
Of great influence will gather
Young and old... the king and ordinary
Elite and non-elite all will be present
At this wedding coming to town

Many are getting ready
While some it we meet them
Unprepared and unaware
They are getting their garment ready
As the colour of the day is pure white no stain

The groom is coming for the church
As the bride is getting ready adorning
With great apparel of stunning white
His face shines so pure light
I pray we all get ready for his return

Because signs of the time
Are everywhere and there is a brand new
Feeling in the air lift your head up high
Upon the eastern sky lift up your head 

For redemption draweth near
See you at the wedding 

The marriage supper of the Lamp.

JUST A WORD ENOUGH FOR A FOOL AND WISE

They are so quick
To go into another relationship
Because they need someone to feed them
Just credit alert and problems is solved
What is she bringing to the table?

Do you even know 

Why some marriage crashes these days
Because they expect odogwu to keep 

Doing odogwu things forever
Forget IG,

There is so much responsibility
To take on already 
Some men are no so stupid 
That they feel they can’t woo a lady
Unless they send her money

And y’all be the first to preach
About fake love
What are you buying with your money
If not this fake love?
Some of you are scared

To break up with your boyfriend
Because of money
Some of you are in toxic relationship
Because nobody will feed you 

If you breakup with him

What’s wrong with having
Your own money to avoid feeling threatened
When anyone wants to leave
A queen and more 
They will give you money

But let them ask you for money once
You no get you don use everything on Louis Vuitton 
I don’t blame them sha, I blame the guys too
Please don’t complain when you brought all these on yourself
You will see a girl that’s working

That has bills to pay and shit
But because she isn’t using 12 pro max
And wearing all these wigs
You say she isn’t your level
But these jobless ones 

Waiting for the next person 
To extort in your level are the ones
You start saying they materialistic 
And they all about money
How did your woo them?

Isn’t with the money?
How can you even plan with someone
That thinks credit alert solves everything 
Honestly, its okay when a man spends on you
But don’t turn it to government work

Earn a living too 
No be man come this life come die abeg
Na everything your papa dae credit you?
Some of you, aside from school fees and food
He no fit give you 50k

But make guy send you 100k
Oloribu ara eh, you will be the first to post
You said you want to spoil and sent 100k
And all bullshit
Why your papa no spoil you?

Hungry maggot with high taste
Y’all can do fuvking better
People wey get sub don sabi themselves
Peace out from here 
Just making common sense.

SOCIAL MEDIA VALIDATION

A simple statement
Don’t let your validation come
From the comments section
I don’t think there are more
Powerful words for this generation

We live in times where social media
Is the most pervasive force in our lives
Whether you participate in it or not.
It’s almost impossible to avoid
Its pull, and maybe you don’t need to
But your validation, your sense of self
How you think about your actions

Sometimes
When I’ve taken a controversial decision
Or taken an action that is risky
I say don’t give me the feedback
Because it will distort my perception of the reality
 
I want to make sure
That I’ve spent time checking my intentions
Auditing my actions and then taking responsibility
For my own decisions not deciding whether
It’s good or bad based on the approval of people.

GONE TOO SOON

Like a comet
Blazing 'cross the evening sky
Gone too soon

Like a rainbow
Fading in the twinkling of an eye
Gone too soon

Shiny and sparkly
And splendidly bright
Here one day
Gone one night

Like the loss of sunlight
On a cloudy afternoon
Gone too soon

Like a castle
Built upon a sandy beach
Gone too soon

Like a perfect flower
That is just beyond your reach
Gone too soon

Born to amuse, to inspire, to delight
Here one day
Gone one night
Like a sunset
Dying with the rising of the moon
Gone too soon

Gone too soon

In loving memory of a dearest sister, a friend, and confident who left this world May 16th, 2022 at 11:55pm.

OH GIVE US HOME

With a man
Whose fear of God
Was instilled right from infancy
In growing up to become teen
And then still running with 

The same fear of God into adulthood
 
With a woman
Whose far of God
Was instilled right from infancy to adulthood
Not just a mere shadow of herself
One who knows what she wants out of life
 
With a man
That has a heart and feeling for human
Never a heart of an animal
So crafty, wicked, and selfishly centered
A man whose hot temper is tame to the core
 
With a woman
Who knows antennal is so sharp
To detect a slight signal of domestic violence
So fast and to move away
From such an object of violence 

Not minding whose is talking
 
With a man
Well nurtured, groomed and matured
Not a boy in a man’s body
Who dwells and treats his sisters with ladies around’
In love, respect, tenderness and concern
 
With a woman
Who is not drunk with the wine of religion
Who still stays in an abusive relationship
Even when the signal of domestic violence is so glaring and clear
Leading to death has flashed her severally
 
With a godly father and mother
Who will rise the next generation
Of domestic violence-free society
Making the whole world a better place to live in
And it all begins with you and I 

FOR THAT WOMAN AT INTERNATIONAL WOMAN'S DAY

To that woman who never settle for less

Who knows her worth and go for it

Whose head is adorn of wisdom

Who stand against the odds of life and time

She exhume great intellect within her

She is well nurtured and well manner 

She got the world standing at still

When she talks and moves 

She is an embodiment of not just outside 

But of a beauty inside that springs wells of knowledge

Her kind is rare 

As she is a rare gem 

Polished after the similitude of the palace

As her place is not found among mean men

But she rules in her kingdom dominating places 

To that woman who outshines 

The flirtiness found around her in the world 

Not meant for everyone but for that special breed

To such a woman who desires the cheers of glass rise

To wish her well

And a happy international women's day

To a life carrier to a mother

And sister a lover of mankind and nature

Happy blissful and graceful women's day to you.

WILL YOU BE FOUND AMONG THESE?

Every woman wants this and wants that
But few are ready for this and for that 
Is beyond the beauty of their outer part
But lies within the beauty of the inner part
Will you be among these 

Are you a woman 
Who society has to shouted down on
On your essence of living the life you want
Just all because you are a woman 
Meant for a second class citizen position

Or are you a woman 
Whose adornment is not meant
For the kitchen or the bedroom alone 
In becoming a baby machine placed in a factory 
To rear and nurture the children

Will you be among these?
The high fliers in their respective
Field of life endeavor 
Making things happen 
Not a lazy full housewife kind of woman 

Parading herself has been married 
Flaunting her signs of being married 
Will you be among these? 
That we define right from the start 
What she wants out of life and marriage 

Not just a mere adornment 
Of embodiment of beauty
Meant for the kitchen and bedroom
Restricted within the confines of the home
Will you be among these

The one who is a problem fixer, not the creator 
The one who is vest at making decisive decisions
She knows what it takes to run 
Not a company or firm but a conglomerate
A maker and shaker of industries 
Will you as a woman yes you be among these?

IT TAKES TWO TO FLY A PLANE

If he is not response enough
To foot his bill and run is life
He isn't fit to be married 
Don't marry him 
Because an empty hands can not build

If he is not skilled 
And lack the wither all to be a man
Not a just a man in bed 
But an all round man
Whose got what it takes to be called one

If she is not working 
Nor learning an hand work 
And earning to foot bills
Don't marry her as an idle hands 
Cant feed an hungry stomach

Because it takes two to fly a plane
Is a joint work to make
The marriage union work
As a good body cannot foot the bills
It takes collective effort to build a sweet home

FOR THAT WOMAN AT INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY

To that woman who never settle for less

Who knows her worth and go for it

Whose head is adorn of wisdom

Who stand against the odds of life and time

She exhume great intellect within her

She is well nurtured and well manner 

She got the world standing at still

When she talks and moves 

She is an embodiment of not just outside 

But of a beauty inside that springs wells of knowledge

Her kind is rare 

As she is a rare gem 

Polished after the similitude of the palace

As her place is not found among mean men

But she rules in her kingdom dominating places 

To that woman who outshines 

The flirtiness found around her in the world 

Not meant for everyone but for that special breed

To such a woman who desires the cheers of glass rise

To wish her well

And a happy international women's day

To a life carrier to a mother

And sister a lover of mankind and nature

Happy blissful and graceful women's day to you.

AN OLD FLAME

We choose to refuse
We choose to wake up
We failed and tie down
We never see from the eye sight
But burnt by an old flame
 
That refuses to die
Then awaken by the past memories
So tied with the whole euphoria
When cast our purples eyes to its shadow
An old flame
 
Worried and at a crossroad
The purpose lingers
And dream kept one awake
All night as sleep embark on a French leave
An old flame so gone but its footprint lingers
 
With its scares left
Its print on the surface of the wall
Like a shadow it refuses to leaves
The sands of time of life and future
An old flame hmmm life has it way of coming back
 
 
 
 

HIS LOVE

Holds no grudges
Never uses the past mistakes
And shortcoming against me
Even though I fall short of His glory
Yet He went on to prof His glory
 
Raising many sons and daughters to glory
Even when we were buried and deep in sin
And we drip the scarlet of sin
His love made way for grace to ensue
His love
 
Is never a fowl kind of love
So strong and resilience
Withstanding the hates of men
He did all what He did for love
And out of love He did all
 
Where human love fails
His love stands and prevails
When the hates of men becomes so high
His love out weights the weight of hates
His love
 
Stands forever when all fails
His never a fake kind of love
But a real love so pure and so crystal clear
His love is way uphigh beyond our imagination
His love for us, with us among us right here in our heart
 
Because we are engrafted
In the palms of His hands
As He gat the whole world right there
Inside His loving arms and always remember this
His love is for you no matter how dirty you are
Or feel you are...His love covers everything and anytbing.
#Godslove #love #you

SHE IS NOT A TOOL FOR SEXUAL PLEASURE

We live in a society
Where everything goes
And women are the most receiving end
Of all these menace that parades our society
From the home out there in the corporate world
 
Beyond the sexual tools
Women are to be seen beyond this
Not a kind of sexual toys
In whose pleasure that derive sex
Is been quench by the thirsty of wild lustful passion
 
Not a body to be fasted on for the night
All because of the hunger of the flesh
Not a curvy to be cornily lured
All in the name of deceitful carnal affection
Not tools for sexual pleasure
 
Life’s carriers and bearer they are
They mould and shape nations
Within their palms they nurture
Their gentle hands cuddles young ones to adult

MARRIAGE WILL TAKE MANY TO HELL

Marriage will take many to hell not because of adultery
The way and manner many couples
Treat one another today in their home
The way many couple treat each other
And the friction in so called many home today
 
The prolong silence couple with war of words
That ensue between married couples
We foretell how their relationship we be
As many couples don't see eye to eye
Marriage will take many to hell
 
All these little, little things here and there
That now seen as little things that doesn't matter
But it does matter big time in the sight of God
The one who make and design marriage
Marriage is a union that ought to be enjoy
 
Where there is no kind of fear
Where the man and the woman is open to each other
Where there is not unnecessary prolong silence
In the home that sun we go down on issues
Marriage will take many to hell
 
Because when animosity take centre stage
In our mind and home is it still that same
Heart and mind that God wants to stay NO
Because He is of a purer eyes to behold sin
Not adultery we lead you to hell but
 
A marriage where there is no true love
A marriage where there is not holding on to guilt
A marriage where the other party is not
Deprive attention all in the name of been
Too busy chasing this and pursuing that
 
The level of brokenness and Christian maturity
Will determine the submission a wife to the husband
Likewise a husband to the wife
Be rest assure you both play your party well enough
Marriage will take many to hell not because of adultery
But because of a little things they ought to avoid.