MY LOVER…MY LOVE.

Love at it starts
Smell like a delicious meal
Cooked by the best chef in town
It scent like a beautiful rose flower
As the question pops up
 
How do you know its love?
But wait does it look like love
At some moment and point in life
Everyone falls in love sometimes
But what happens when it turns into a crime?
 
What happens to those days?
When love all just started
What got missing and where
Did love itself got it all wrong
My lover my love.
 
A heart once pure is now laced with chains
A love that soothes yet leaves deep stains.
A kiss a touch was it all real?
Or just a game a poisoned deal?
Is love still love when it’s disguised?
 
The world once bloomed with shades so bright
But now I drown in endless night
A love so sweet yet laced with fears
Soft words concealed by silent tears
Is love still love when pain remains?

CHRISTMAS: A SEASON WRAPPED IN LOVE 💕

Is the season of love

Love in its entirety and totality
Is that season of the year
Where love is in the air
In celebrating the Christmas season.

A season wrapped in love
Where giving is done in love
A lovely giving and shared
Beyond family and friends
As well as strangers.

Gift wrapped in love
At this Christmas is the season
Of sharing love in giving
The priceless gift of the season
A season wrapped in love.

Wrapped in kindness
As kindness is one of the necessity
Of humanity as mankind
Is in there need of love likewise love too
A Season Wrapped in Love 💕

Is the season of love
Love in its entirety and totality
Is that season of the year
Where love is in the air
In celebrating the Christmas season.

A season wrapped in love
Where giving is done in love
A lovely giving and shared
Beyond family and friends
As well as strangers.

Gift wrapped in love
At this Christmas is the season
Of sharing love in giving
The priceless gift of the season
A season wrapped with love.

So as you go on this yelutilude season
Remember to wrapped a gift for nothing
But for love at this season of Christmas
Because Christmas comes with so much
Gift but the most priceless is the gift
Wrapped up in love inside it.

CHARITY...HOME.

The saying
That says
Charity begins at Home
Is an old time long saying.

But do you also know
That every things starts
From the home front
So if everything fails
Check up with the home front.

There is corruption
In the land today
It never starts from just
The one in the government
It started from the home.

The home is the bedrock
Of all human existence and activities
If the home fails the nation is at risk
Of bad administration likes wise
Spread to all sectors of the nation.

If a child be it a boy or girl
Act out in abnormal within
The confide of society
Where such a one exist
The home is to be questioned.

So that old long slogan
Has become a continuous sentence
In which it has metaphor face into
Charity begins at home
And it ends outside.

The behave exhibited
From the inside the home
Will carries one out there into the world
As character is a smoke that can not be hidden
To this end 

You are an image projector of the kind of home you belong.

THE SONG: TO BE A MAN BY DEX.

Dax has done it again
With his latest release To Be A Man
A soulful and introspective track
That dives deep into the struggles
Of being a man in modern society.

With his signature style
Of powerful and meaningful lyrics
Dax takes listeners through the emotions and thoughts
Of a man who feels misunderstood
And unappreciated by the world.

The song explores the expectations
And stereotypes imposed on men
And how they affect their mental
Health and relationships.

Dax questions the notion
That men must always hide
Their feelings, work hard, and provide
For their families without getting
Any respect or recognition.

He highlights
The pressure and pain experienced
In the lives of many men and
How they cope with it.

To be a man is a heartfelt and honest
Expression of what many men go through in life.
It’s a message that is relatable to both men and women
Challenging us to empathize with
And understand what it’s like to be a man in today’s world.

The song was produced by LexNour Beats,
Who has worked with Dax on several songs.
The music video, shot by Logan Meis,
Features Dax performing the song in various touching settings.

The visuals are stunning
And the video has already garnered
Over five hundred thousand views on YouTube
Dax To Be a Man
Is a powerful and impactful song.

That resonates with many people
It’s a reminder that masculinity
Is not a one-size-fits-all concept
And that we need to challenge
The stereotypes and expectations
That society imposes on men.

WHEN THE HOME GOES THROUGH CHALLENGING TIMES.

Every home has their issues
Every family has their differences
And sometimes these issues and differences
Overwhelmed one and take a toll on one
In the end if not well managed things get ruin
To the fiber of the existence of that home.
 
But it takes the people in such a home
To make sure the home is safe heaven
After the storms has come and gone
See everyone got their excess
But the ability to manage excess.
 
Is linger and grew
To the great success of such a home
To keep the life of the home going
One needs to stand stall and not
To differ when challenges happens.
 
To save the home and make the home safe
One must savage the pitfalls
That stand to serve as a threat
To breaking and make a mire of such a home
If peaceful resolution is not ensue
So much will be broken to asunder.
 
During these time
The strength and love of such a home is tested
The wind will blow the storm will come crushing
But on whose foundation will determine
If such a home will stand.
 
If you built on faulty foundation
Such a home won’t last
It will crush at crescendo in couple of seconds
And all that have been taking time to build over the years
Will be lost just within a flit of second.
 
When a home faces challenges
Is left to the two key people involve
To savage the situation so the children in such a home
Won’t bear the brunt of the whole mass destruction
Of the storms and challenges that will come 

In face off with such a home.

LOVE BEGINS AT HOME.

Out there we have many wounded soul
Who are sick, tired and helpless to live
Life is faking out and things aren't okay
Even the outside world outside the home
Has lost the scent of that love.

As it all begins to fade away
Love isn't love anymore
But in the midst of all these
Let love lead us to the safest place.

 
Where our heart feels at home
Where our mind is never mingle with fear
Where there is an unconditional love
Where we stay up to watch out for one another
Because love stays at home.

WHAT IT TAKES TO BE MARRIED

Marriage wasn’t made in Heaven
But Heaven built the institutional framework for marriage
On which the pillar of a home is rested upon
Right from the foundation of the world
But the question that pops up every now and then.

Is
What it takes to be married
Is it all these wishy-washy kinds of ideas
That plays out in our minds' head
Whenever we see married couples

Or is it beyond the wishy-washy stuff
That project married from the side view
Of things we see and were told better still read
In the books around us of flits of marriage books
Then transcend down to the audio messages around.

Does love meant to be
What it takes to be married
Or flits of living in a luxurious house
With the state of the art furniture and fitting
Or is there something else that isn’t in place?

Or does it boil down
To attributes and characters
That is the source of which
Marriage is built on in one married life
So to what end is that thing that key ingredients.

Of what it takes to be married
And still remain in marriage happily
As each day, months and years suffice
As one journey in Holy matrimony
Or is the answer so far away that one needs to take a journey to find it.

Does it go beyond love?
As love isn’t only the key ingredient
That keeps our homes and marriages going
Through many thick and thin toils and snares
What does it take to be married and stay in marriage?

LIFE HUMBLE MOMENTS

I never heard the biggest wedding in town
But have gotten the biggest heart
Full of love to share with wifey

I never heard the best of the best
Venue for my wedding ceremony
Talkless of an exotic venue reception
But have got a home blissful enough
To enable the environments in living a fulfilled life

I never heard the support
Of those who I reverend
And held high so high in my life
But you no what God sends human
In angel form that came through for me

As some people took
Me getting married as a scam
But God has His way
Of showing up for His own
That men are not what they profess to be

With empty baskets of unfulfilled promise
Who seats backs and wants to celebrate one failure
But they forgotten so soon that God isn’t a man
And never acts as man does as man are spices
That never practice what they preach at all

FOR ALL THE MEN OUT THERE.

Family is consistent because it makes one understand the importance of family with the roles its entails, if you see a home where the children are always winners check up on the wife.

 

A broken man from a broken family can turn around in 360 degrees to become a great dad to his family, building a great family and keeping them together not building a broken family of which such a dad is a product of.

 

A dad must do good in the right sense you cannot buy your way into that, but you must do the right thing in the right way by living your life to serve, help and provide.

 

The world has changed, what is our role as men? Being high on the mountain is a slippery slope and is so lonely up there, so as men you must go through a character transformation changing your life from this point A to that point of B.

 

A hero to someone, men are built to be such a one but a hero is someone who looks out for someone and stays on someone until the best fashion of those he is looking out for comes up out of the inside man in these men.

 

Often times life humbles us and derails us to the point of becoming the real us, as men and none of all these can happen without the family. Society is really forcing success down our throats being so self-centered lovers of ourselves, we all want to be followed and lead and never willing to do anything to be influential.

 

What are your motives for giving and the intent of your heart when it comes to leading?

Who teaches you how to be a man, fame is a monster we have a lot of battles and roads we have to walk in giving life, in other words, individual challenges and then fame magnify the problems we face as men and humans.

 

· Stay on your knees

· Watch your mentor

· But stay on God never leave Him for any man.

 

Better Man Event...to be a better man take all you listen to and hear to heart. Dreams without goals won't take you nowhere make sure on the road to achieving your dreams you must fly, discipline comes to play here without consistency you'll never finish and then leave room for learning.

LOVE STAYS

I pray it stays
And understand
The rough edges
That comes with being loved
I pray it stays

To last till in the nighttime
Filled with laughter and understanding
I pray it stays strong
When the reality of life
Comes knocking at your door

When love fades out of your eyes
I pray it stays
Weathering the storms
Calming the days of stormy events
When the billows come boiling high

I pray stays
Till the night time of our life
Long enough till old age
Long enough to come to fulfillment

NOT A BEG AFFECTION

An affection begged
Won't last till nighttime
You are priceless
With a high-value price you are
You are meant to be pampered by someone

Who doesn't make you beg for their affection
Beyond affection time
As out of sight is out of mind
In the midst of the busyness of the day
The heart does remember

The one that makes such a heart beats
And is never have a second thought
Of where you stand with them.
isn't far from the heart
That cares and wants it badly

You deserve someone
Who takes you and is there
For you in good and bad times
Never far away
Not too far to be out of sight

Always closer like the air
And the smell of the body odor of yourself
You deserve a relationship
Not a beg kind of relationship
With someone who got you

For real as you also do.

THE WAITING PERIOD: BEING SINGLE

Being single
Is a period of time
To discover your purpose
Before getting into being in a relationship
The period of singleness

Is a period of self-discovery
Getting more acquitted
To God and with yourself
As the first step in living
A fulfilled life is knowing God

From the moment you discover these two
The better life becomes sweet
Each moment of singleness
Should be a moment
Lived well enough

To be cherished for life
With smoothen memory
Not just a memory
But a life living inside of you
Being single is not a curse

And shouldn't be a time of pressure
Is better to be late
And to be happy all life long
Because been married
Is a long-time contract

Singleness shouldn't be
A time of frivolities
Chasing this chasing that
It should be a time of being set apart
From the heat of chasing this or that

A fulfilled single life
Is a life not controlled my emotions and feelings
But a life controlled by God
Where your emotion doesn't control you
Not can be a blessing

But being single is a blessing
That privacy with God is the key
A time to be self fish not to yourself
But to the ones who like
To keep you around just

Because of the benefit
They get been around you
I call these sets of ones
Parasites living under the host
Is time to pour into yourself

In other words self-development
The period of single is about
You developing yourself
In all areas spiritually, financially, emotionally
Mentally, psychologically
And so on...

LOVE, RESPECT N APPRECIATION

When respect is gone love cannot grow
Respect is the fuel
The drives and keeps its engine going
Without respect
There is no place for

To flourish talkless being grown
An unappreciated love
Will die the death of being neglect
And taken for granted
A loved one needs to see

He or she deserved to be
Loved as she shows out
Respected inspite been
The women in the relationship
As he opinions to do count
Likewise appreciating being one self is the key.

BEING MARRIED SHOULDN’T MAKE YOU LOSE YOUR DREAMS

Never stop being you
Never stop chasing your dream
Never stop becoming the phenomenal you
Never stop at becoming what you desire to be
Never allow anything to make lose you

Getting married shouldn’t
Make you lose you
You have goals and childhood dreams
That you want to see and work to achieve
And nothing by any means should change that
 
The fact that things change
Status changes environment evolve with time
Many things has change over this past years of your life
Grew from the yesterday you are
To today where you find yourself
 
Make sure in all you do
That you never forget yourself
While long you have taken care of someone else
As you make everyone your priority
Also make you yourself your own priority
 
Because the day
You wake and realise
You’ve lived all your life
Chasing after taking care of others
While long you’ve forgotten taken care of you
 
Live your dream
Follow you to the letter
Do what makes you happy and brings you joy
Pick up that little book where you write
Everything you want to do with your life
 
Marriage shouldn’t stop you
From living your own life
You got a life too remember
So as you are busy trying to make your marriage work
Never forget to make your life work
 
Make your dream your priority too
As you make your home a priority
Make your goals realistic and workable
As you labour to keep up to your spouse
Make yourself count and well enough
 
As you toiled night and day dust to dawn
In working towards becoming a good wife/husband
Never forget the you that you were before marriage
Make sure you don’t lose you in all
Being married shouldn’t make you lose your dreams

IT DOESN’T MATTER WHERE OR HOW

Sometimes…
Fate brings two people together
In such an incredible way
That some stories
Are even hard to believe
 
No one ever knows
Where exactly the two lonely
Paths will cross
Either by sheer chance or
Through higher providence
 
All the puzzle pieces fall
Into place to form one big picture
And then there’s nothing
Anyone can do about it
It doesn’t matter where nor how
 
Just one day
Fate will come visiting
And this special being
Will just appear from the blues
And give our sky beautiful blue colours
 
The colours of love
In its purest form
Transforming it in just a moment
Adding life to a dead gloomy life of ours
It doesn’t matter where or how
 
So when love comes visiting
In form of fate visiting
Open up your heart for love
To love you for whom you are
Never what you’ve been through in the past

IS THE BIBLE

God's unfailing Word
That outlive man's word
Is the Bible that heals the wounded heart
The hope of the world today
Is the Bible
 
That transforms a broken heart
Making life a new giving it a meaning
Is the Bible man's compass to Heaven
A guide to living God's lifestyle for believers
Is the Bible
 
Blessed in every Words in it
Information that seeks the heart of God
Bringing life enternal to its readers
Life to the bones and flesh
Eternal Word of God that never fadeth away
 
Is the Bible
All in all
The answer to man searchable question
The answer to the world's problem
The forever living Word is the Bible
 
Inspired by the Spirit of God
Lead the Spirit written by Holy men of God
Letters to pierce the soul
Dividing the heart asunder
Is the Bible.
 
 

A BIG WEDDING IS COMING TO TOWN

There is an event coming
To town and it with a shake
The whole place where mankind is found
From the rural areas to the urban center
Everyone we have a feel for this wedding

There hasn't been none like it
The high and low we witness it
As it we translate and transform
The landscape of humanity
A big wedding coming to town

The sound is so loud
Chanting so evoke in its announcement
The sound of melodious tunes
Everyone is proclaiming
The biding to be at this feast

Were men and women
Of great influence will gather
Young and old... the king and ordinary
Elite and non-elite all will be present
At this wedding coming to town

Many are getting ready
While some it we meet them
Unprepared and unaware
They are getting their garment ready
As the colour of the day is pure white no stain

The groom is coming for the church
As the bride is getting ready adorning
With great apparel of stunning white
His face shines so pure light
I pray we all get ready for his return

Because signs of the time
Are everywhere and there is a brand new
Feeling in the air lift your head up high
Upon the eastern sky lift up your head 

For redemption draweth near
See you at the wedding 

The marriage supper of the Lamp.

JUST A WORD ENOUGH FOR A FOOL AND WISE

They are so quick
To go into another relationship
Because they need someone to feed them
Just credit alert and problems is solved
What is she bringing to the table?

Do you even know 

Why some marriage crashes these days
Because they expect odogwu to keep 

Doing odogwu things forever
Forget IG,

There is so much responsibility
To take on already 
Some men are no so stupid 
That they feel they can’t woo a lady
Unless they send her money

And y’all be the first to preach
About fake love
What are you buying with your money
If not this fake love?
Some of you are scared

To break up with your boyfriend
Because of money
Some of you are in toxic relationship
Because nobody will feed you 

If you breakup with him

What’s wrong with having
Your own money to avoid feeling threatened
When anyone wants to leave
A queen and more 
They will give you money

But let them ask you for money once
You no get you don use everything on Louis Vuitton 
I don’t blame them sha, I blame the guys too
Please don’t complain when you brought all these on yourself
You will see a girl that’s working

That has bills to pay and shit
But because she isn’t using 12 pro max
And wearing all these wigs
You say she isn’t your level
But these jobless ones 

Waiting for the next person 
To extort in your level are the ones
You start saying they materialistic 
And they all about money
How did your woo them?

Isn’t with the money?
How can you even plan with someone
That thinks credit alert solves everything 
Honestly, its okay when a man spends on you
But don’t turn it to government work

Earn a living too 
No be man come this life come die abeg
Na everything your papa dae credit you?
Some of you, aside from school fees and food
He no fit give you 50k

But make guy send you 100k
Oloribu ara eh, you will be the first to post
You said you want to spoil and sent 100k
And all bullshit
Why your papa no spoil you?

Hungry maggot with high taste
Y’all can do fuvking better
People wey get sub don sabi themselves
Peace out from here 
Just making common sense.

SOCIAL MEDIA VALIDATION

A simple statement
Don’t let your validation come
From the comments section
I don’t think there are more
Powerful words for this generation

We live in times where social media
Is the most pervasive force in our lives
Whether you participate in it or not.
It’s almost impossible to avoid
Its pull, and maybe you don’t need to
But your validation, your sense of self
How you think about your actions

Sometimes
When I’ve taken a controversial decision
Or taken an action that is risky
I say don’t give me the feedback
Because it will distort my perception of the reality
 
I want to make sure
That I’ve spent time checking my intentions
Auditing my actions and then taking responsibility
For my own decisions not deciding whether
It’s good or bad based on the approval of people.

GONE TOO SOON

Like a comet
Blazing 'cross the evening sky
Gone too soon

Like a rainbow
Fading in the twinkling of an eye
Gone too soon

Shiny and sparkly
And splendidly bright
Here one day
Gone one night

Like the loss of sunlight
On a cloudy afternoon
Gone too soon

Like a castle
Built upon a sandy beach
Gone too soon

Like a perfect flower
That is just beyond your reach
Gone too soon

Born to amuse, to inspire, to delight
Here one day
Gone one night
Like a sunset
Dying with the rising of the moon
Gone too soon

Gone too soon

In loving memory of a dearest sister, a friend, and confident who left this world May 16th, 2022 at 11:55pm.