WHAT IT TAKES TO BE MARRIED

Marriage wasn’t made in Heaven
But Heaven built the institutional framework for marriage
On which the pillar of a home is rested upon
Right from the foundation of the world
But the question that pops up every now and then.

Is
What it takes to be married
Is it all these wishy-washy kinds of ideas
That plays out in our minds' head
Whenever we see married couples

Or is it beyond the wishy-washy stuff
That project married from the side view
Of things we see and were told better still read
In the books around us of flits of marriage books
Then transcend down to the audio messages around.

Does love meant to be
What it takes to be married
Or flits of living in a luxurious house
With the state of the art furniture and fitting
Or is there something else that isn’t in place?

Or does it boil down
To attributes and characters
That is the source of which
Marriage is built on in one married life
So to what end is that thing that key ingredients.

Of what it takes to be married
And still remain in marriage happily
As each day, months and years suffice
As one journey in Holy matrimony
Or is the answer so far away that one needs to take a journey to find it.

Does it go beyond love?
As love isn’t only the key ingredient
That keeps our homes and marriages going
Through many thick and thin toils and snares
What does it take to be married and stay in marriage?

LIFE HUMBLE MOMENTS

I never heard the biggest wedding in town
But have gotten the biggest heart
Full of love to share with wifey

I never heard the best of the best
Venue for my wedding ceremony
Talkless of an exotic venue reception
But have got a home blissful enough
To enable the environments in living a fulfilled life

I never heard the support
Of those who I reverend
And held high so high in my life
But you no what God sends human
In angel form that came through for me

As some people took
Me getting married as a scam
But God has His way
Of showing up for His own
That men are not what they profess to be

With empty baskets of unfulfilled promise
Who seats backs and wants to celebrate one failure
But they forgotten so soon that God isn’t a man
And never acts as man does as man are spices
That never practice what they preach at all

FOR ALL THE MEN OUT THERE.

Family is consistent because it makes one understand the importance of family with the roles its entails, if you see a home where the children are always winners check up on the wife.

 

A broken man from a broken family can turn around in 360 degrees to become a great dad to his family, building a great family and keeping them together not building a broken family of which such a dad is a product of.

 

A dad must do good in the right sense you cannot buy your way into that, but you must do the right thing in the right way by living your life to serve, help and provide.

 

The world has changed, what is our role as men? Being high on the mountain is a slippery slope and is so lonely up there, so as men you must go through a character transformation changing your life from this point A to that point of B.

 

A hero to someone, men are built to be such a one but a hero is someone who looks out for someone and stays on someone until the best fashion of those he is looking out for comes up out of the inside man in these men.

 

Often times life humbles us and derails us to the point of becoming the real us, as men and none of all these can happen without the family. Society is really forcing success down our throats being so self-centered lovers of ourselves, we all want to be followed and lead and never willing to do anything to be influential.

 

What are your motives for giving and the intent of your heart when it comes to leading?

Who teaches you how to be a man, fame is a monster we have a lot of battles and roads we have to walk in giving life, in other words, individual challenges and then fame magnify the problems we face as men and humans.

 

· Stay on your knees

· Watch your mentor

· But stay on God never leave Him for any man.

 

Better Man Event...to be a better man take all you listen to and hear to heart. Dreams without goals won't take you nowhere make sure on the road to achieving your dreams you must fly, discipline comes to play here without consistency you'll never finish and then leave room for learning.

LOVE STAYS

I pray it stays
And understand
The rough edges
That comes with being loved
I pray it stays

To last till in the nighttime
Filled with laughter and understanding
I pray it stays strong
When the reality of life
Comes knocking at your door

When love fades out of your eyes
I pray it stays
Weathering the storms
Calming the days of stormy events
When the billows come boiling high

I pray stays
Till the night time of our life
Long enough till old age
Long enough to come to fulfillment

NOT A BEG AFFECTION

An affection begged
Won't last till nighttime
You are priceless
With a high-value price you are
You are meant to be pampered by someone

Who doesn't make you beg for their affection
Beyond affection time
As out of sight is out of mind
In the midst of the busyness of the day
The heart does remember

The one that makes such a heart beats
And is never have a second thought
Of where you stand with them.
isn't far from the heart
That cares and wants it badly

You deserve someone
Who takes you and is there
For you in good and bad times
Never far away
Not too far to be out of sight

Always closer like the air
And the smell of the body odor of yourself
You deserve a relationship
Not a beg kind of relationship
With someone who got you

For real as you also do.

THE WAITING PERIOD: BEING SINGLE

Being single
Is a period of time
To discover your purpose
Before getting into being in a relationship
The period of singleness

Is a period of self-discovery
Getting more acquitted
To God and with yourself
As the first step in living
A fulfilled life is knowing God

From the moment you discover these two
The better life becomes sweet
Each moment of singleness
Should be a moment
Lived well enough

To be cherished for life
With smoothen memory
Not just a memory
But a life living inside of you
Being single is not a curse

And shouldn't be a time of pressure
Is better to be late
And to be happy all life long
Because been married
Is a long-time contract

Singleness shouldn't be
A time of frivolities
Chasing this chasing that
It should be a time of being set apart
From the heat of chasing this or that

A fulfilled single life
Is a life not controlled my emotions and feelings
But a life controlled by God
Where your emotion doesn't control you
Not can be a blessing

But being single is a blessing
That privacy with God is the key
A time to be self fish not to yourself
But to the ones who like
To keep you around just

Because of the benefit
They get been around you
I call these sets of ones
Parasites living under the host
Is time to pour into yourself

In other words self-development
The period of single is about
You developing yourself
In all areas spiritually, financially, emotionally
Mentally, psychologically
And so on...