Stay Away From Other Women

She is a gem only if you can see it

She needs to be respected no matter what

She is a wife not a slave her opinion count as well

Her needs is your need so also her pain is yours as well

Love her with the whole of your being

Infidelity tears our home apart as family

The sight of it bring coldness and prolong silence

To the home once filled with love and communication

The communication breaks down and the love tank becomes empty

Stay away from other women

I am not saying that you become rude to women

I am not saying you gain a reputation for being

Discourteous, disrespectful, cold or abrupt

What I am saying is that we keep an appropriate distance

In our relationship with women with whom we work and associate

You don’t need to be wired or act strange

You don’t need to make anyone feel uncomfortable to be around you

But both women that you work with and your wife

Will intuitively know your behaviuour and actions

That there is a man who is clean and pure in relationship with all women

Here is a man willing to go

The extra mile in commitment to his wife

We must keep our distance emotionally

And we must keep our distance physically

And if we do that, we’ll be just fine

One of the reasons the vast majority of men

Never find the reason to stand the heat

Is because the enemy takes them out

Which makes them in turn paying the wrong price

For a moment of pleasure

Ministry begins at home

As men our first ministry responsibility is to our wife

The second is to our kiddies

So let me ask you men a question here

If you get tied up with some woman who isn’t your wife

What kind of ministry are you going to have to your wife and kids?

You won’t, and if you don’t have a ministry to your wife and kids

Then quite frankly you are not going to finish strong

And if at all you want to finish strong there one non-negotiable trait

That you must embrace in your life regarding sexual temptation

And that trait is gut – level honesty