SHAPE YOUR TREE...

I really don't believe you will meet anybody

Who’s already made for you in all ramifications

I don't believe there's one human being

Cloned or created to suit you 100%.

There is one thing I know and hold on to

With patience, love and friendship

You can gradually get someone

Who will fuse into you and make your life a heavenly bliss.

I think you can give room for your partner

To learn, grow and evolve into a perfect picture

Of your imagination with time…Academically

He or she might not be there but they can grow into it

With your help and supervision…shape your tree

Faith wise, he or she might not be up there with you

On the same level but she can grow spiritually

Into something beautiful

…Sometimes,

We make a certain kind of mistake

Where we want someone whole, a perfect picture

Of what we want in a man or woman

In reality, you can't have a perfect being made for you

Forget spec and list of attributes or features

Sometimes you will have to create beauty

In a tree with so much potential

We all have deficiencies

I have mine and you have yours

We all have abilities and capabilities but not everything

Being in a relationship with someone

Requires you to help your partner to learn, grow and evolve

Help them acquire skills, relationship skills,

Business skills and many more

Help them reach greatness

Or be that beautiful person you want.

Shape your tree, be willing to sit, wait

And shape that person into something desirable

Most times

Relationship is teaching, learning, unlearn

Relearn, growth and evolve.

Relationship is far bigger than sex and chopping lips

Relationship is responsibility in many aspects

Many aspects you might not see before you ventured in. 

Victor Orji Ojembe