Holding Your Man

Our ability to become emotionally involved
with other and to be vulnerable to them
directly related to our experiences
of having been stroked, caressed and cuddled
in our lives. We learn security
from warmth of being held close.

Before both, a baby is enveloped
in the soft warm embrace of the womb.
After birth, the child who is left
untouched and uncuddled
will form a bond with anything given to touch,
such as stuffed toy. If all human tactile
experience is denied, the baby will eventually die.

Our need for touch continues
throughout our lifetime.
In fact, our body chemistry
actually changes when we are physically
close to another person.

When a person is touched,
the amount of hemoglobin in the blood
which carries oxygen and helps prevent
diseases and speed recovery from illness
increase significantly.

In one animal study,
rabbits that were held close and stroked
often developed less hardening of the arteries
than stroked, unhugged rabbits!

If you are uncomfortable
with intimacy or close contact,
you can learn to become comfortable.
It will require effort, but the results will be worth it!
The best way to hold a man is in your arms.

A HOME

Home has been called “heaven fallen sister”
Our homes can” help but bear at least
A partial imprint of our fallen world
And yet home holds the greatest potential
For being when heaven of any place on earth.

A joyful marriage
Is a but of heaven on earth?
A godly home built upon heavens principles
Can be the sweetest place to be
A home where there’s joy in serving others
Surely it is a place where there are no harsh words

No prolonged silence born out of anger
But a place where each person is made to feel special
Important and valued beyond measure
A place each person would desire to return after each difficult day.
The good news is that
We have the privilege of creating
Our homes to mirror heaven
It is within our power with God’s help to do so

When We First Melt

That as I watch you
From a distance
Out there in the crowd
Am so amuse and lost in your world
Because you are beauty exemplify
Beautiful Onyinye

When we first melt
I thought you stole
My breathe away
Cause your charming beauty
Got the hold of me
But I realize I was still breathing
Not breathless

I was thrilled by your look
Dazing in your own special way
Such a beauty to behold
You make me smile
You make me shine
Like a diamond in the sky
I thought that an angel
Was missing up there in the sky
I was so thrill and lost

I thought I was dreaming
Praying to wake up
From my sleep into reality
Heaven bless that day
When we first melt

Mother Nature attests to it
Nature approves it
As they are in a jubilant song
An orchard of praise
There’s an awaken
The world witness a new light
Shinning across all land
Breaking every boundaries and barriers
Silencing every tongue

When we first melt
The day I found you my soul mate
When you and I first melt
Beautiful Onyinye
Life is brilliant

I saw an angel
Full of life…full of vigor
Such a gift to mankind
Don’t be a heart breaker
Cause you’re Onyinye
Dazzling in her own world

Wrapped in splendor
Mother Nature gift to mankind
Nature spends so much time in making her
My angel, gem of inestimable jewel
Onyinye

You’re a gift
A gem in making
Shinning through the darkness
Shattering the night
Like a diamond up there in the sky

Beauty exemplify
Don’t run too far from me
Please take my hand
For a long lasting companion
Filled with love, care and understanding
Come along with me
As we travel through the universe

For
I can show the world
Shinning and slumbering
Through the darkest time
I’ll be by your side
When the world forsake you
I’ll be there for you beautiful Onyinye
Hmmm…I how you forth

To my friends and family
For whom you are not what you have
Courteous, fear of God instill in you
Industrious, caring, considerate
Loving and fun to be with and always truthful
Beauty and character you have it all

That’s why you are my girl
I call you beautiful Onyinye