Soul Mate: 2011

Heading to Break-Up

Our relationship
Broke up and shattered often times
We wonder what went wrong
Why the break up what happens
To the sweet memories

We tried everything
To keep it going but the more we try
It becomes as if is not working out
What the point of trying
While after each trying comes failing

We discover along the line
There’s a hunting shadow within
Ravaging our effort to make it work
Why is it not working?
Why do we have to argue on an issue?

There’s a trace of falsehood
No trust and it void of faithfulness
Unfaithfulness looms around our relationship
The silent tears cried as the heartaches
The mind is so sick and the brain is tired

Will scream and voice out
Will talk a work yet is still within
Will take counseling from friends and family
Will seek the help of an expert in relationship talk
Will go out of our way to stop this entire nothing seems working

Heading to break-up
There’s no way we can be together
Is not working all effort prove abortive
Let’s take a walk and move ahead with our life
Starting out a fresh brand new life
Lest we heading to mass destruction
Entangling our life into heartbreak for life

From a Distance

You came my way
You zoom out from the sky
You drop on me the sweet
Smelling fragrant of your love
From a far you found me

You want to take it everywhere
With lies within your heart
Though sweet savouring feelings
For me a special place in your heart
From a distance you could feel me

You held me close to you
You felt my heart beat
Beating as our heart beat together
In one single proportion
Wrapped in loving arms of you

Here as you revolve in my world
Close your eyes make a wish
For today you’ve found me
Forever you will be mine
From a distance we came together

You came along
When there’s a need to talk
When loneliness wrap her arms around me
You came along and swept it off away
From a distance my loneliness disappear

My joy no knows bound
As I rejoice in you
What a being so special
Nature spends so time in making her
From a distance we melt

Two becomes one
Lock in tight embrace
Its feelings so awesome
That tongue can not express
From a distance you came
promise to stay for good...

Holding Your Man

Our ability to become emotionally involved
with other and to be vulnerable to them
directly related to our experiences
of having been stroked, caressed and cuddled
in our lives. We learn security
from warmth of being held close.

Before both, a baby is enveloped
in the soft warm embrace of the womb.
After birth, the child who is left
untouched and uncuddled
will form a bond with anything given to touch,
such as stuffed toy. If all human tactile
experience is denied, the baby will eventually die.

Our need for touch continues
throughout our lifetime.
In fact, our body chemistry
actually changes when we are physically
close to another person.

When a person is touched,
the amount of hemoglobin in the blood
which carries oxygen and helps prevent
diseases and speed recovery from illness
increase significantly.

In one animal study,
rabbits that were held close and stroked
often developed less hardening of the arteries
than stroked, unhugged rabbits!

If you are uncomfortable
with intimacy or close contact,
you can learn to become comfortable.
It will require effort, but the results will be worth it!
The best way to hold a man is in your arms.

A HOME

Home has been called “heaven fallen sister”
Our homes can” help but bear at least
A partial imprint of our fallen world
And yet home holds the greatest potential
For being when heaven of any place on earth.

A joyful marriage
Is a but of heaven on earth?
A godly home built upon heavens principles
Can be the sweetest place to be
A home where there’s joy in serving others
Surely it is a place where there are no harsh words

No prolonged silence born out of anger
But a place where each person is made to feel special
Important and valued beyond measure
A place each person would desire to return after each difficult day.
The good news is that
We have the privilege of creating
Our homes to mirror heaven
It is within our power with God’s help to do so

When We First Melt

That as I watch you
From a distance
Out there in the crowd
Am so amuse and lost in your world
Because you are beauty exemplify
Beautiful Onyinye

When we first melt
I thought you stole
My breathe away
Cause your charming beauty
Got the hold of me
But I realize I was still breathing
Not breathless

I was thrilled by your look
Dazing in your own special way
Such a beauty to behold
You make me smile
You make me shine
Like a diamond in the sky
I thought that an angel
Was missing up there in the sky
I was so thrill and lost

I thought I was dreaming
Praying to wake up
From my sleep into reality
Heaven bless that day
When we first melt

Mother Nature attests to it
Nature approves it
As they are in a jubilant song
An orchard of praise
There’s an awaken
The world witness a new light
Shinning across all land
Breaking every boundaries and barriers
Silencing every tongue

When we first melt
The day I found you my soul mate
When you and I first melt
Beautiful Onyinye
Life is brilliant

I saw an angel
Full of life…full of vigor
Such a gift to mankind
Don’t be a heart breaker
Cause you’re Onyinye
Dazzling in her own world

Wrapped in splendor
Mother Nature gift to mankind
Nature spends so much time in making her
My angel, gem of inestimable jewel
Onyinye

You’re a gift
A gem in making
Shinning through the darkness
Shattering the night
Like a diamond up there in the sky

Beauty exemplify
Don’t run too far from me
Please take my hand
For a long lasting companion
Filled with love, care and understanding
Come along with me
As we travel through the universe

For
I can show the world
Shinning and slumbering
Through the darkest time
I’ll be by your side
When the world forsake you
I’ll be there for you beautiful Onyinye
Hmmm…I how you forth

To my friends and family
For whom you are not what you have
Courteous, fear of God instill in you
Industrious, caring, considerate
Loving and fun to be with and always truthful
Beauty and character you have it all

That’s why you are my girl
I call you beautiful Onyinye

I Don’t Know Why

All along he was finding you
He didn’t even know your name
Young men come and young man goes
For life goes on just the same

I don’t know why
Why do you keep wondering?
You turn me to all so strong
Is something I don’t know oh why?
Something very wrong be you and me
Oh baby that’s just the way it is

They’ve been waiting for the world to down
They’ve been waiting for you night and day
They’ll wait no longer for you in memory
Be too late, I don’t know why

You see
What have you got to say?
If we agree we could disagree
We could stop all this today

Is been your life for as long
As you can know but you can find no more
In this one you want to go somewhere
As many ask you what you did before
All along he was finding for you
And he did even know your name
Young man comes and you men go

Nothing I can do that’s just the way it is
Oh that’s just the way it is oh baby

Language of Love

Talk About Love

Let’s talk about love
Let’s talk about us
Let’s talk about life
Let’s talk about trust
Let’s talk about love

Everywhere I go
All the places that I’ve been
Every smiles is a new horizon
On a land I’ve never seen
There are people around the world
Different faces, different names
But there’s one true emotion
That reminds me we’re the same

From the laughter of a child
To the tears of a grown
There’s a thread that runs
Right through us all
And helps understand
As subtle as a breeze
That fans a flicker to a flame
From the very first sweet melody
To the very last refrain
Lets talk about love

It’s the king of all who live
And the queen of good hearts
It’s the ace you may keep up your sleeve
Till the name is all about lost
As deep as any sea
With the rage of any storm
But as the gentle as a failing leaf
On any autumn morn

Let’s talk about love
It’s all we’re needing
Let’s talk about us
It’s the air we’re breathing
Let’s talk about life
I wanna know you
Let’s talk about trust
And I wanna show you

Love Says…

We may allow ourselves to be used
But we are in fact creatures of emotion
Thoughts desire and will
Having the ability to make decision
And taken actions

Allowing oneself to be used
Or manipulated by another
Is never and not an act of love
It is in fact an act of treason
Never…has love said

You are allowing him or her
To develop inhumane habit
Love says “I love you too much”
To let you treat me this way
It is not good to for you or me

When we treat our spouses/ soul mate
As objects we preclude
The possibility of love
Coercion by fear is alien to love

Doormat or Lover?

I have served you for so long
In have waited on you
Hand and foot
I have been your doormat
While you ignored me

Mistreated and humiliated me
In front of my friends and family
I don’t hate you
I wish you no ill not at all
But I resent you and I no longer wish to live with you

I did it all
They were done out of fear
Guilt and resentment
Just for the sake of love
Doormat or lover?

A doormat
Is an inanimate object
You can wipe your feet on it
Step on it, kick it around or whatever
It has no will of its own
It can be your servant but not your lover

Love: after Marriage

What we do for each other before marriage
Is no indication of what we will do after marriage
Before marriage we are carried along
By the force of the in-love obsession

After marriage we revert
To bring the people we were
Before we fall in love
Making us different
While our action is influenced

By the model of our parents
Our own personality and perception of love
Our emotions, needs and desires
Only one thing is certain about our behavior
It is not the same when we were
Caught up in being in love

Love is a choice
And cannot be coerced
You can give guidance to love
By making request
What happens to love after marriage?
Love: after marriage

Love Doesn’t Lie

There’s love
That cannot lie
So string true and real
That the heart has no fear
Of being burnt by love
Love that has no price tag

Love that doesn’t cost a thing
But the love that comes
From a sincere heart
Void of fear and suspension
Love doesn’t lie

That flows from me to you
That is what love is all about
Is all about responsibility and sacrifice
That is love all is that kind of love
Love doesn’t lie

But said the truth
Have no fear, pretence and ill-treatment
But always be there when is needed
Not the one that seeks to defraud it partners
Love never gratify self at the expense of others

That kind of feeling
That is void of fear of the unknown
With the thought of loosing one to someone else
Where emotional infidelity
Love doesn’t lies

The truth is simplify
So clear that is been seen
Right in your eyes
Character, words and dealings
Love doesn’t lie

Love exists and flourishes
When the heart is abreast
Void of suspicion and pretence
Where each one treats one another
With respect and honor
Referencing one another that’s when…Love Doesn’t Lie

Run Away

Be swift as jet
Fly as an eagle
Run as fast as you can
Babe am going to get you
Run Away

I we run the miles
Take the flight
Cross the ocean
Am coming for you
For you I’ll return

Run Away
If you can for I’ll catch you
Thou you may be fast as your leg
Can carry you for am right by yourself
don’t go too far from me

Run Away
Comes let’s run away together
To place where You & I
Will be together alone
Away from the noise of the world quiet

Run Away
With me to a place
Where the world
Wants and deserves us to be
Come let’s go

Come into my arms
As I pull you close to me
Lock in a tight embrace
Wrap in the warmth embrace of you
Run Away

Look into my eyes
And see there’s truth
Faithfulness is seen in it
In your eyes I see the true
Reflection of me Run Away with You

Run Away babe with you

What You Believe?

Had the news flipping around town
That you are about to leave
Calling it quit leaving me
Cause believing some untrue words
What you believe

You tend to take a bowl
Because you’re filled
With untrue story about me
You never wanted to hear
My own side of story

Don’t there’s something wrong
You’ve been the sweetest part of my life
Yet you still let the opinions of men
To tear us apart this way
What you believe…what we you will believe

There’s or mine
You just conclude without
Not hearing from me
You let them take hold of you
By judging me wrongly base on their perception about me

Just a chance to explain
And lety you see the needs
The reason behind the whole story
It was a make up
To destroy what we share together

Let me tell
If you don’t know
Many never attest to our union
And what they seek is just
To ruin everything...what will you believe?

There’s or mine
They muddle up the word
And take away truth
Leaving you with heart break
With an haste decision

What will you believe…them or me

What You Believe?

Am Here

If tomorrow never comes
Be rest assured that you have me
Am here just for you
Cause if the world forsake you
I won’t I will be there to hold you

Am here
Look into my eyes
And see that truth is not far from it
I mean it I swear to be by your side
Where you go I’ll go
With you all the way

Am here
When friends are gone
When family deserted you
When the world turns it’s back on you
When you feel you’re all alone am here

Am here
To take you with me
Cause I’ll be right there
When you needed me most
I’ll be your closeth companion

Am here
Not too far from you
Close to you
Nearer then what you think
Am here just4You

Look at the world
Look at the distance
Look far they world is so busy
Let’s go off from the noise
Into a quite place just you and I alone

Am here
For you and you for me
Cause I choose to be with you
I love you with an endless love
It can never die always alive
I want to be a life in your heart not a memory

You’re Such a Gift

It was late January
At the local shop stopping over
Met her somewhere
In the heart of west
Mother Nature’s work of art

She is just a masterpiece
My eyes and heart couldn’t let her be
Nature spends so much time in making her
She just wore a smile looking so innocent
She’s nature’s gift so young and so free

I looked into her eyes
I saw so much love inside
In your eyes I can see
The true reflection of me in your eyes
But please don’t move too fast from me

Don’t be a hard rock
‘Cos you are really a gem
But I cannot bear it
If you break my heart
‘Cos you’re such a gift

N.B:
Love is neither sex nor romance
Love is all about
Responsibility and sacrifice

Am Your Angel

No matter what you are
Where you are from
As long as you love me
I will always be yours cos
Am Your Angel

No matter how far
You are from me
I will be your voice
Your shelter through the sun
Am Your Angel

Thou the world forsake
And the doctors report
Shows that you got
Limitless time to live
I’ll be there for you

You’re mine Angel
From the laughter on your faces
There’s a emotion that runs
Deep within us that makes us one
You’re my Angel

You and I
Must make a path
Will must bring love, tenderness and joy
Filled with dreams and goals
That we both have for each other

The light in my life
Through the dark through the night
You’re just there with me
No matter what happen
I’ll be there for you…Am Your Angel

You look into my eyes
I make this pledge to you today
For all you are to me
I love you much more then tongue
Can tell to love, respect, cherish and care for you

To you I’ll return…You are mine and am yours

In Love with a Ghost

There’s the feeling
I felt sometimes ago
Around this feeling so real
As each day pass by
It was love…in love with a ghost

People taught am crazy
Some says have got to consult a physician
But it kept on going on for days
This feeling becomes so real
I felt am emotionally attached to this feeling

Thou unseen but I felt it
Then I came in contact with this being
He/she show off to me
That I can see just me alone
In love with a ghost

You may taught
Have gone nut
That I need the intervention
Of a mental doctor not at all
Am in love with a ghost

Have you ever been in love?
You cross the moon
Heading to the mountain top
With that feeling unusual
In love with a ghost

So found of this person
With so much that comes
Whenever his presence
She makes me happy
In love with a ghost

Don’t say that there’s something wrong
You been the sweetest
Part of my life love you so much
Every where I go his with me
Am in love with a ghost

In love with unseen being... a ghost

Special Times

There are moments we’re wrap
In someone’s world lost in that world
When we first found and felt
What love is all about?
So dare emotionally attach

Our soul mind and body
Becomes in-separateable
To this one our heart longs for
From day to day moment after moment
Will remembers him/her

Like a life
It lives within our heart
In our closeth will have him/her
And she has him in her mind
A special moment just like this

There’s this unusual feeling
Within will fill fulfilled
That we’ve found the world
What we found become so dare to us
Is all about love not lust

It’s so real
Void of deceit pretentence
Self centered not me only but us
A special moment when we share together
Special times

When we are together
Wrap in the embrace of each other
In a warmth atmospheric atmosphere
In our world of love fulfillment and excitement
A special times like this

When you are with me
And I with you
Love is all about you and me
Sacrifice, dedication, care and responsibility
That is it, a special time like this

When we found love and never want to let go

What You Believe

Sexuality and Shame

The issue of sexuality
Is always treated with much secrecy
Because it an area where the devil
Afflicts Christians with shame

Satan inflicts us with guilt
Of the sins committed in the past
Bringing down our self-esteem
As well as causing hindrance to our prayer life

Like every other form of sin
When we confess them to God
He forgive us our sin
The bible say there’s no condemnation
For them that are in Christ Jesus
Who do not walk according to the flesh
But according to the Spirit

Therefore we have been set free
From every form of guilt and shame
Through Christ’s death on the cross
And we are free indeed
We should not allow ourself to held by the past sin
Committed in the past

God loves us irrespective
Of what has happen in the past
When we come to Him
In repentance our past is forgotten
Is our responsibility as Christians
To grow in maturity so our brethren
Can confide in us and share their challenges
So they can be restored

If a man is overtaken in any trespass
You who are spiritual restore such a one
In a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself
Lest you also be tempted
Remember blessed is that man whose sin
The Lord does not count against him

Understanding Sexuality

There are several misconception about sex
Which have been accepted as facts
Because God’s true purpose for sex
Is really discussed
Understanding sexuality

God wired into man
With sexual organs and emotions
As essential parts of his being
The sexual emotion is one of man’s
Strongest physical emotion

Therefore it must be carefully managed
To ensure that they are managed effectively
This is a tool the devil has used subtly
To control the sexual desires and
Tendencies of humans today

Sex is totally God’s ideas
His intent for it is for man to enjoy
Intense sexual pleasure and procreate
Within the context of marriage
Between man and woman

God is the creator, originator and initiator of sex
His intention is for us to enjoy sex
Any limit within the context of marriage
Between man and woman
When we choose to do it
He gives us the capacity to management.

Crave for Materialism

The world we live in
There’s a rapid change
On the increase everywhere is been felt
There’s this crave for materialism
Love cost a thing

Moving from
Love does not cost a thing
Is now love cost a thing
“To let the love you have for me
To grow strong you must spend money”
That’s the statement I got from someone

Is so alarming this days
What happen imagine this
A girl of 18 years of age sent
Me this via chatting “No money No Love”
The crave for materialism

Imagine how some people
Got a fish brain
That they cannot think outside
What is called money
Placing a price tag on love

Someday some will get hurt
In search for what is not
This often make me thinking sometime
With a question mark in my mind
Does true love exist

Love or money
Am so amaze and speechless
Imagine all these
That’s the world we live in
I don’t know what to tell them all

Is now “No Money, No Love”
“For your love for me to be stronger
You have to spend” hmmm
Send me air time (Recharge Card)

Flash Light

You came as light
I saw you somewhere
I was there watching you
After that time you never came around
Like a flash light you’re gone

And some other time
I saw you again somewhere
Why all this unusual feeling
That I always felt when you suffice
Out from no where right in my face

Why can’t you stay
For a while for some minute
For some time stay
About speaking the courage is not there
Just watching from a distance

Come off and on
Like a flash light
Like a candle in the wind
Like a name written in the sand
Flash light

About talking
But was speechless
The mouth was open
But nothing was coming out
Empty why the word has gone out

Sufficing like a star
That fades away with the night
Like the stars of the morning
That fades away at the sight of the dawn of the day
Flash light

You’re a flash light
Appearing everywhere I turn to
You gone like a star
You appear like a diamond
Flash light that’s what you are

Not Just Friendship

Am never want just friendship
Neither a casual one for that matter
I have been with you all this while
We’ve been friends so very long
Am sincere and very sure

That you and I
Are a friend but I must say
Is not just friendship I want
But I want to spend the rest of my life
With you all my life

Am serious demn so serious
Have never been so sure of myself
The way I am today right this moment
I just want to be there for you
And you alone

Not just friendship
More than a friend
A soul-mate mine and mine for real
A friend, sister, companion and wife
You see is not just friendship

All this while we’ve been together
From friendship grow to be found
Of each other you try to hide
But you can’t just help it
Fighting the feeling right inside you

And I know ‘cos
Is written all over you
In your eyes, smile, and the way you talk
The care and concern you showed
You want much more then friendship

Here come take my hand
For a long lasting relationship
Filled with love, trust and faithful
Not just friendship
But a soul-mate (You&I)

Think Twice

Never think I don’t know
That there’s something wrong
You’ve been the part of me
All this while you know me
As I knew myself

Of late you put up
This attitude suddenly a cold feet
You develop the sweet moment
You and I share it seems serious
What happen to you

That you chose to act
In that manner and that way
Something is wrong
You been seen some-else
Yet you pretend all along

Like a kiss in the dark
Never the shadow of yourself
It seems you’ve gone
Along way from me
What happen to us

And here you are
About to break the bad news
That you’re leaving
Calling it quit
Think twice

Baby don’t say
What you’re about to say
Think twice before you leave my life
Cause everything depends on you
Before you run those time

So think twice
For the sake of our love
For the fire that burns in you and me
For those dreams we both share together
Baby think twice

Leaving

Waking up into a new day
With so much to expect from the day
A new day filled with hope
And dreams so much lined up
But there’s this unusual feeling

Then you called
Saying that you’re leaving
Like a thunder bolt
It struck down deep inside of me
As my bone shaver

Of what would have happen
What went wrong
As I was in deep thought
For days never was I able
To recollect what happen

All along have sense it coming
But I fail to belief it will come
One day someday today
You called it quit
Hmmm so hurt…

Leaving
Me for someone else
Cause you’ve been seeing someone else
All this while you pretend
As if all was well

But why?
What have I done
Where do I go wrong
All what you say is that
You needed some space

A time to be alone
All by yourself
Away from me to someone else
You know it that’s the truth
Of you leaving me

True Love: does it exist?

The world we live in today
Love conquers all so say some people
But the essence of true love
Void of pretence and playing around
True love: does it exist?

Love for sale that is it today
Some are so cautious of money
Making money there second identity
That’s while some are scared of love
Still searching for true love

But have search far and near
Yet the question that keep ringing in my mind
True love: does it really exist
And where can I find it
If it does really exist

Been around here and there
Melt different people in so many places
Offline and online in all social website
Different name…different faces
But all has one thing in common
Carrying a price tag “love for sale”

Love for sale
No money no love
One day some day
Someone who got hurt
In search for love for sale

Now the highest bid
Get the love hmmm
Is somewhere true
Have search long into land
The question is yet unanswered

Have been searching for a love
That kind of love where there’s no fear
Neither cheating nor jealous
That special kind of person who will
Just take me for who I am not for what I have
Is there exist true love, does it exist?

Love Conquers All

As we enter the New Year
Our roads are the same
With pothole on it
The food we eat is still
Cooked in this pattern.

Our buses are still the same
Old bus we use to use
Our school remains the same
Not change but one thing
Will never change God and His words.

If what you do in the year gone by
You still repeat the same old pattern
You will get the result of what you got
In the past year, do something in a new way
Is a New Year change your method?

As we enter the New Year
Let love be the central thing
Our guiding factor
All through the period of the New Year
Love one another as yourself.

Remember love
The master key that opens all door
Irrespective of religious affiliation
Love is needed the mightiest word
Is love?

Remember to forgive
As the year begins today
Let go offences and forget about it
Have a forgiving heart
Is a new year live with malice and hatred?

2:46am
19th Nov. 2009

Love & Forgiveness

One of the greatest
Expression of love is forgiveness
But often forgiveness is very difficult
No matter what forgive
That is the essence of love

When an action done
By another person is misinterpreted
Emotion may be deep-rooted
This is especially true if one
Has allowed thought of the act to persist

Hatred and distrust
Are common by products of such thought
And far too frequently
There is a desire to revenge
To get even with those who committed the act

Forgiveness takes guts!
Whether you are the one
Asking forgiveness or the one forgiving
It takes special guts when
You forgive someone who does not respond to your forgiving

Suability of Love

There’s very little that is subtle about love
Although we like to think of love
In soft, gentle terms we may say
We have “fallen” in love but in fact
Loves plummet into our heart

It seems to come from no where
We suddenly feel love beating in our hearts
As if injected into full strength without warning
That it’s feelings is so strong
Making it too real to us

We may say we are
“Growing together” in love
In fact love cause us to collide together
As if we were two planets on an overlapping orbit
We like to speak of the mystery of live but in fact
Love is the most real, obvious and overwhelming
Emotion that we can feel

We speak of the lyrical language of love
But most of us are tongue-tied by it
And stand silently in awe of it
We may think of love as being fragile in fact
Love is the strongest thing we can never know
It alone has the power to remain
Alone and endure forever

N.B: love is neither sex nor romance.
Love is responsibility and sacrifice

Love

Love is a strong desire for something
When we first find love it was hard
To let it slip away because we are in love
We want to take it to the house top
Because we’ve been love by someone

Is a commitment…a pledge to stand?
To take responsibility of what comes after it
I love you is often use but is much more than that
Is a matter of the heart?
Never to be toiled with so is not a child’s affair

Not love that gratify self
At the expense of others
But a love without dissimulation
A love that comes out of a pure heart
Not impure love turns outside to be lust

The course of a true love
Never did run smooth
They are price to be paid
They are promise to be kept
They are emotion to respect and keep under control

Sending our Love to Japan

There comes a time
When someone in a faraway land
Sends a save our soul call
When the world must come together as one
To yield these call

So lets send them our heart felt love
In contributing to revive the lost hope
In them as a nation they needs our helping hands
Cause we are the world we are the one
To make a brighter day so lets start given

Sending our love
Cause somebody needs your love
Someone in silent yearning for gladness
Someone is out there is in pain
Needs somebody that person is no one but you

Sending our love
By contribution our time
Our resources financially
Our prayers for the departed soul
And those out there lying in the hospital bed

We must stand in unity
Undivided committed to serve
To save a dying soul
Restoring life back to the lifeless being
Sending our love

Lets do it
Cause if we don’t
Know one else we do
For this is a worthy cause
Never undermined that is never you nor your country

Remember
A friend in need
Is a friend indeed
We must stand together as one by
Sending our love to them out there in Japan

Standing There

Everyone needs attention
Everyone needs affection
Everyone needs compassion
Everyone needs love
A sense of belonging

That’s all we crave for
We need it and we ourselves
Can never dying that fact
Standing there
Watching you as you never take off your eyes

As you never allows him
To stay off your eyes
As the passion burns within you
And your heart beats high
Racing at ninety degrees

Too high to contain
Too hot to contain
Shivering from the head to the toe
Never want to let go
Standing there looking at you

That’s what you’re going through
As I see you standing there
In the midst of the crowd
Sufficing out of an enormous seas of head
Standing there

Long Distance Relationship

Often the thought of going into
A long distance relationship
Gives me a lot of concern and fear
Sacred of loosing my love
O’re hills far and wide
Long distance relationship

Some do believe
Some never believe it
How can we couple with it
Without not seen each other face to face
Some will tell you the phone is there
The email and social Medias are there

To bridge the gap between us
Over that so long distance
Yeah! But it will create room for suspicion
Infidelity among lovers and so much lies
Long distance relationship
For some it works others never works

This long distance is killing me
I wish I’ll rather be where you are
But the step were we are so high so far
There will be a moment you miss him/her
That you wish she/he is in your arms
Curdling, peeking and hugging all these you long to do

But the distance can’t let you do that
You want her/him by your side
But she/he wasn’t there
Long distance break relationship
It makes love to die unnatural death
Loves grow cold and shrink

So, so difficult to handle
Loneliness will be there
Waging a massive battle
Always miss her every time
She so faraway from him…he’s so faraway from her
Love across a long distance
Long distance relationship

STANDING THERE

Marriage is a marathon, not a sprint.

PSYCHOLOGISTS use the phrase
“progressive menaces”
in their professional vocabulary.
This may seems an ideal
way to describe matrimony,

but it does convey the idea
that marriage is not static.
It is ever changing.
As with any normal relationship,
a couple continually faces changing situations
that require each person a new orientation,
a new pattern of reaction, a new way of facing life.

In individual lives,
our greatest years of productivity
usually come later in life.
Wayne Dennis at Brooklyn College
studied the lives of 156 well-known scientists
who lived beyond age of seventy.

He found that the decades of the forties
and fifties were their most productive.
The years of sixties and seventies,
while not as productive as the forties and fifties,
were years of high output.
But their twenties were their least productive years.

Four major poets
who lived beyond eighty
did more work in their last decade
than they did between twenty and thirty.
Tennyson was eighty when he wrote
“Crossing the Bar.” Michelangelo painted
The Last Judgment at age sixty.

The most satisfying and fulfilling years
of marriage are also likely to be later in life.
Make your marriage one for the “long haul”

It Takes Two to Make a quarrel.

WALTER Trobisch once said,
“When a couple comes to me
and wants to get married,
I always ask them if they have
once had a real quarrel not just
a casual difference of opinion but a real fight.

“Many times they will say:
‘Oh no! Pastor, we love each other.’
“Then I tell them:
‘Quarrel first and then I will marry you.’
“Then the point is, of course, not quarreling,
but the ability to be reconciled to each other.

This ability must be trained and tested
before marriage. Not sex, but rather
this quarrel test, is as I see it,
a required premarital experience.

“The question is, therefore:
are we able to forgive each
other and to give in to each other?”

Harsh words and argument
often involve an eruption of long-harbored bitterness.
We may not be able to control
all the factors that lead to hurt feelings,
but we each can keep bitterness
from growing in our hearts.

If an issue warrants discussion,
discuss it the very day the issue arises.
If you don’t act upon a hurt by the day’s end,
consider the issue past.
Burn the bridges of that hurt and don’t look back on it

Love…,

Love is the one business
in which it pays to be an
absolute spendthrift: Give it away;
splash it over empty your pockets
shake the basket; and tomorrow
you’ll have more then ever.

LOVE is often called
the “queen” of the fruit of the Spirit,
the supreme manifestation of the Christian character.
Donald Grey Barnhouse has
made this very clear in his description
of the fruit of the Spirit

Love is the key.
Joy is love singing.
Peace is love resting.
Longsuffering is love enduring.
Kindness is love’s touch.

Goodness is love’s character.
Faithfulness is love’s habit.
Gentleness is love’s self-forgetfulness.
Self-control is love holding the reins.

A strong marriage is founded upon love.
Sustaining that love is an ongoing privilege.
Begin and end each day
with words of love and acts
of kindness for each other.

Pour your love out upon one another;
don’t withhold it in anger or resentment.
Let your love spill over into joy.
Let love fill your home with peace.
Endure irritations and difficulties
with kindness and goodness.

Be faithful to your spouse
in word and deed
Love gently, controlling
anger or displeasure.

Don’t be like the man
who responded to his wife
when she complained that
he never told her he loved her:
“I told you I loved you
on our wedding day,
and if I ever changed my mind,
I’ll let you know.”

Share your expressions
of love generously and frequently!

Marriage Inspired by Consideration, and Respect

ONE might not think of a bank’s monthly newsletter
as the place to read about the importance
of good manners in marriage,
but consider these wise words a staff
member at the Royal Bank of Canada once wrote:

“Many of things that disturb family life
are the product of original mistakes
compounded by bad manners.
Walter Hines page, distinguished
United State ambassador to Great Britain, said;

‘The more I find out about diplomatic customs,
and the more I hear of the little-big troubles
of others, the more need I find to be careful
about details of courtesy.’

“If love is the foundation of happy marriage,
good manners are the walls and diplomacy
is the roof. “Manners for two are fixed by
the same rules as are manners for the million,
based upon the Golden Rule.

They spring from kindness,
courtesy, and consideration, with a dash
of savior faire the faculty of knowing
what to do and how to do it.”

For some,
the secret of a happy marriage
lies in finding out what please the other person,
then doing those things. For others,
the secret lies in discovering
what irritates, annoys, or angers
another person, then not doing those things!

Marriage may be inspired by music,
soft words and perfume; but
its security is manifest in work consideration,
respect and well fired bacon.

Disagree without Being Disagreeable

THE Lyrics of a song proclaim,
“I am a rock, I am an island.
And a rock feels no pain, and an island never cries.”
Unfortunately, those who live with rocks and islands
often do feel pain and cry.

People who think of themselves
as being entirely self sufficient are,
in fact, selfish. They nearly always proclaim
their opinions as the only ones that count,
their feelings as the only ones that matter.

Such a person is rarely capable
of a good argument they simply make
speeches and walk away.
If you are the spouse of such a person,
Dr. James Dobson offers this advice:

Change that which can be altered
explains that which can be understood,
teach that which can be learned,
revise that which can be improved,
resolve that which can be settled,
and negotiate that which is open to compromise…
accept that which cannot be changed.”

If you and your spouse cannot find
an area of agreement, accept the fact that
you disagree. Rather than suffer in silence
at another’s selfish tirades, simply say,
“I have another point of view.”

Open acknowledge your disagreement
may very well be your first point of agreement!
If we must disagree,
let’s disagree without being disagreeable.

Find Time for Anything.

COLLENS EVANS writes in my lover,
my friend: “I’m not sure exactly what I said,
but between sniffs and sobs…I told him
how hungry I was to be with him,
to have time to talk and dream alone…

“We sat and talked for a long time,
saying things we both wanted and needed to hear
…I remember louie thanked me
for being honest about my feelings…..

And then he did a simple,
practical and, to me very beautiful thing.
He took his little date book from his pocket,
and looked until he found a free night.

it happened to be Thursday
of the following week, and he said,
that’s our night’….Out of that night
came a decision to put aside time
every week for same purpose….and so
it has been in all years since….Thursday night.

“Now I’m sure many couples
are able to find time for each other
in as easy unscheduled way,
and that’s wonderful.

But that didn’t work for us.
With our kind of life
we found we had to make time.
You will never “find time for anything.
If you want time, you must make it.

Friendly and charming relationship

ELIZABETH endured hall on earth
during her formative years.
She was one of eleven children born
to a father who was an oppressive,
dictatorial tyrant. His angry rages
often sent sensitive Elizabeth to herbed any variety of ills.

It wasn’t until she was forty years old
that Elizabeth met Roberts.
Roberts did not see her
as a sickly middle-aged invalid.

Rather, he saw her as a beautiful,
talented woman just waiting to blossom.
He loved her will all his heart and
withstood several brutal confrontations
with Elizabeth’s controlling father
before he finally won her hand in marriage.

Glowing in love for each other,
they traveled the European continent,
marveling at God’s wonders
and at their own love.
At forty-three, Elizabeth gave birth
to a healthy boy.

Their lives were full and beautiful.
In great joy, Elizabeth wrote to her husband
the incomparable words of “How Do I Love Thee?”
True loveliness and charm had wonderfully
entered Elizabeth Barrett’s life
when she became Elizabeth Barrett Browning.

When we pour the balm of love
on our spouse we can help bring
healing to past hurts and encourage
them to walk in God’s wonderful plan for their life.

There is no more lovely,
friendly, and charming relationship,
communion, or company than a good marriage.

Jesus Christ is the cornerstone of marriage

MARRIAGE involves a blending of lives,
not merely a “joining.”
Many marriages flounder
because each continues to look back
over their shoulder at freedoms and relationships
they had in the past.

When a couple invites Jesus Christ
to be the cornerstone to their marriage
the strong foundation upon which
they build their relationship
they are inviting Him to walk before them.

Then He is free to lead them forward
into the unique purpose
He has for them as married couple.
We are unique as individuals,
but each marriage is also unique.

It is as individuals and one of a kind
as the two people involved.
Just as God created us as completely
original individuals, so we need to
invite Him to make our marriages
completely original relationships.

This can only happen
when each person in the relationship
yield his or her individuality to God’s higher purpose.
C.S Lewis said, “Self exist to be abdicated.
In self-giving we touch a rhythm,
not only of all creation, but of all being,
for the Eternal word also gives Himself in sacrifice.”

Marriage was designed
to teach us about
our relationship with Jesus.
The key to a good marriage
is loving self-sacrifice.
A personal relationship with Jesus Christ
is the cornerstone of marriage

Your Thoughts Determines Your Marriage

The direction of your thoughts life
can determine the course of your marriage.
As train 8017 made its way through
salerno, Italy, on March 2, 1944,
there was no indication of impending disaster.

The chugging train didn’t derail or burn.
But shortly after 1:00 a.m.,
the train loaded with 600 passengers
lumbered into the Galleria delle Armi.

When two locomotives
pulling the train were halfway
through the tunnel, their drive wheels began to slip.
The wheels lost traction and the train stopped.
All else is speculation since both engineers died.
Carbon monoxide snuffed out the lives of nearly 500 people.

As analysts surveyed the wreckage,
they found that the leading locomotive
was unbraked, but its throttle was positioned
“full ahead.” The two locomotives
had pulled and pushed against each other

each engineer obviously
having fatally different ideas
about what to do! Some have speculated
that no lives would have been lost
of the engineers had been in agreement
about which direction to go.

Today,
make a decision with your spouse
that you will both move your thought life
in the direction of God then
stay close by controls of your minds.

Argument the longest distance between two points.

In Letters to Karen,
a book written to his daughter
by Author Charlie W. Shedd, he shares
“Our Seven Official Rules for a Good, Clean Fight.” They are:

Before we begin
we must both agree that the time is right.
We will remember
that our only aim is deeper understanding.
We will check our weapons often
to be sure they’re not deadly.

We will lower our voices
one notch instead of raising them two.
We will never quarrel or reveal private matters in public.
We will discuss an armistice whenever either of us calls “halt.
When we have come to terms, we will put it away
till we both agree it needs more discussing.

Says Shedd,
“No small part of the zest
in a good marriage comes from working
through differences. Learning to zig and zag
with the entanglements; studying
each other’s reactions under pressure;
handling one another’s emotions intelligently
all these offer a challenge that simply can’t
be beat for sheer fun and excitement.”

We can experience that
“sheer fun and excitement”
when we learn to apply the above rules
for a good, clean fight and apply ourselves
to open, honest communication.

This Thing Called Love

Everyone is caught in it
No exception both the rich and poor
Is what you experience
That you’ll never want to let go
Love

Love is a feeling
That you feel inside of you
Tongue can only express it
But cannot tell of it
This thing called love

Is so emotional driven
The matter of the heart
That’s what it is
Not a child’s play
Neither should it to be toiled with

It takes a normal being
And transform that person
Into another different personality
A whole different being
Love

But wait!
Have you consider
What does it take to be loved
The sacrifice to be made
Something you’ve got to deny yourself of

Friends will say a whole lot
Family may have some conflicting
Ethic rivalry with differences
But no matter how big the ocean is
Love cannot be drawn

By ethic sent mention
By beliefs and principles
By the opinions of friends, family and society
Nothing can quench the flame
This thing called LOVE

Name-Sake

She bears the opposite of my name
She’s just wore a smile
So unassumingly looking so innocent
Gentle as a dove as calm as the early dew
I met her somewhere

A beautiful gem she is
As my eyes and heart
Couldn’t let her be
Mother Nature’s masterpiece
So young and so free

As I watch her from a distance
The very first day I set my eyes on her
A beauty to behold that what she is
She stole my attention away so fast
I was lost in her…so stuck on you

Don’t play too cheap to get
‘Cos you’re a jewel of inestimable price
Am so proud of you my name sake
I have the opposite of her name
A good name is better then great riches
Name-sake…am speechless

Time to Love Again

Am seeing someone else
Am sorry have got to go
Is time to love me back
Time to throw away my fears
Time to know that I’ll get back
Only if I try hmm

There’s no room for regret
No more less I learn
From the people I melt
Good the bad and the ugly
All together

Broken heart…emotional breakdown
Alone in thought
Tears roll down on the chick
As of a might pool of streams

Never want to love again
The heart felt the pain of separation
Within something is eaten you up
That you never want to fall in love again
But is time to love again

No matter what has happen
Or what you’ve been through
Just let it go and try to love again
Give it a chance
You won’t fall victim again

Is not where the ocean run
Is not where the sky land
Is just the feeling you felt
That’s when you found love
It time to love again give love a chance and be happy again

Just You

I have look out so many place
Far into a distance land
O’re hills on the mountain
Descending down the valley
Just you

Many faces have come across
Many names have known
So many characters and ability
Just you
Stands out from the rest

There’s been a long waiting
For that special one
The my heart so much desire
For in you that is that person I desire
Just you

That’s it
I will never want to let it go
Just like that because is just you
No matter how far you are
No matter what it takes to make you mine

I’ll never let it go
I’ll be there to make it up to you
Neither the world likes it or not
If the world forsake you I won’t
Just for you I’ll be there

When you need someone to talk
When in times of weakness
When your own leave you
And it seems the world is on your shoulder
I’ll be right there for just you

Just you and I
Will make it to that place
As we watch our love grows stronger
Each moment committing it to God
To see us through and stand by our side

The family begins in a commitment of love.

If you were to hold a lump of dark green clay in one hand and a lump of light green clay in the other, you could clearly identify the two shades of color.

However, if you were to mold the two lumps together, kneading them thoroughly, you would see just one lump of green clay, at least at first glance.

Upon closer inspection, you could see the separate lines of dark and light green clay, yet it would be virtually impossible to separate the clay into two pure colors again.

That is an image of what it means for a husband and wife to become “one flesh.” Love binds couple together, especially as they knead out some of their differences and develop a life of mutual goals, activities and relationships.

A grandma once told her young granddaughter that Jim and June were coming for a visit. With eager anticipation, they baked special treats and cleaned the house thoroughly in expectation of their over night stay. Upon their arrival the little girl exclaimed with wide-eyed wonder, “Nanna, there are tow people. Someone came with Jim and June!” just like the well-blended clay, in marriage we are no longer two, but one.

It Worth Waiting

I don’t want to make you cry
Neither do I want to cause you heartache
My love for you is not love turn outside lust
But it is for real to always be there
When you needed me most
I’ll wait for you

Thou at times I might act so stupidly
Never think am taken advantage of you
Nor I made you to suffer
But the please help me to be that person
You truly want me to be patient matters
Understanding works it out

We both have a bright future
A promising one filled with so much to accomplish
Lets not rush things
Lets not indulge in little enjoyment
Miring our future for the present enjoyment
It worth waiting if you truly love me you’ll wait for me

Lets take it so slow
Putting emotion, feelings and desire under check
Never to give room for careless behavior
Cause that will ignite the fire of passion
That will burn us both
It really do to wait

It worth waiting
People are doing it
But we are different
Others may will can not
I know it won’t be that easy for us both

With God’s help it will
If only will commit everything in His hands
He will not fail us please help me same with I to you
We’ll watch our dressing, avoid unnecessary caressing and touch
Let’s wait…in waiting we make it through

It worth waiting
If you truly love me you will wait for me
Please do this for me

A Mired Future

He was a child
A boy with a promising future
Ready to take on his world at storm
Letting things happen making headlines
But there’s a but in is life

That seems too hard to do without
The flesh is arch enemy always waging war
Lust for girls so much beyond control
He thought it was love but he never knew it was lust
A victim of circumstances that what he was
His future and present satisfaction

Love by all
Many wish they had him as they’re own
But within him lies that little giant
That can destroy him at the blink of an eye
No ones knows himself did not know
That is approaching a dead end

From a distance
He took a special interest in her
As he approach her she agrees
Day after day they are so into one another
Something that has never happen started happening
As the passion runs so wide flowing in their vain

Both of them attend the same school
All of a sudden lost of concentration in school
His football career was at stake
That fire has been rekindle
About burning them both
It burns so bright

One day he gave in
And slept with her
She was fell at the assembly ground
He found out that she was pregnant
This disorganize him as his education and football career
Oh that dream of playing for man-united was curt short
As she was sent to the village to put to bed
Her education was curt shot one careless act result into
A mired future hmmm…

Your Future and Pleasure

Whatever you do, be cautious
Wherever you go, forget not who you are
When you are alone, remember your calling
Be cautious in everything you have a future
Forget not the person whom you are
Remember you have a call to change the world

Your future depends on so many things
But mostly on you is in your hands
If you decide to indulge in pleasure
Someday you’ll back and regret
The day of pleasure waiting your time and resources
Never do what you remember with pain in the future

Never sacrifice your today
For the pleasure that any one offers you
One careless act that ruin you for life
Seek for the future today
Stay away from all social vices
Never do it because the world is doing it

It pays to be different
Why don’t you take your time
Suffer before you enjoy
It worth it after pain comes pleasure
Endure it, take it and put yourself under control
Your future and the present pleasure

People are coming beckoning on you
Inviting remember my son, my daughter
If sinners entice you consent thou not
Flee from the part of destruction form the evil way
To God flee let go and let God
Take on your future forget the present pleasure

Everyone has girl friend and boy friend
Me I don’t have any thou some may say
There’s nothing bad in having one
But I tell you there’s no way two opposite sex
Will be going out without have intercourse one day
This body is not stone you’re human being not human angel
So watch it never sacrifice the present pleasure for your future

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