She is
a gem only if you can see it
She
needs to be respected no matter what
She is
a wife not a slave her opinion count as well
Her
needs is your need so also her pain is yours as well
Love
her with the whole of your being
Infidelity
tears our home apart as family
The
sight of it bring coldness and prolong silence
To the
home once filled with love and communication
The
communication breaks down and the love tank becomes empty
Stay
away from other women
I am
not saying that you become rude to women
I am
not saying you gain a reputation for being
Discourteous,
disrespectful, cold or abrupt
What I
am saying is that we keep an appropriate distance
In our
relationship with women with whom we work and associate
You
don’t need to be wired or act strange
You
don’t need to make anyone feel uncomfortable to be around you
But
both women that you work with and your wife
Will
intuitively know your behaviuour and actions
That
there is a man who is clean and pure in relationship with all women
Here
is a man willing to go
The
extra mile in commitment to his wife
We
must keep our distance emotionally
And we
must keep our distance physically
And if
we do that, we’ll be just fine
One of
the reasons the vast majority of men
Never
find the reason to stand the heat
Is
because the enemy takes them out
Which
makes them in turn paying the wrong price
For a
moment of pleasure
Ministry
begins at home
As men
our first ministry responsibility is to our wife
The
second is to our kiddies
So let
me ask you men a question here
If you
get tied up with some woman who isn’t your wife
What
kind of ministry are you going to have to your wife and kids?
You
won’t, and if you don’t have a ministry to your wife and kids
Then
quite frankly you are not going to finish strong
And if
at all you want to finish strong there one non-negotiable trait
That
you must embrace in your life regarding sexual temptation
And
that trait is gut – level honesty
