BEEN MARRIED…BEEN RESPONSIBLE


Some school of thought had it
That until one is married that’s when
One become responsible
Responsible because such a one
Is now attached to a particular being (Mr.&Mrs.)

Been married…Been Responsible
Does that serve as a yardstick of been responsible
Doesn’t becomes something worthy to associate with
You chase the wind in flittlessness of life
How many married men today are responsible? Few

A lot of them are married with kids
And while some are not with kids
Some are busy just busy chasing what they are not
Some are married but single
Been married…Been Responsible

But how do one measure been responsible
There are responsible single men out there today
Better off than the married men who are married
But are not responsible at all far from it
Marriage shouldn’t be a yardstick to measure been responsible

Like a man fails to provide for his own
Like a man who fails to keep the marriage vow
Like a man whose kids aren’t in school because of money
Like a man who has lost his dignity in sight of the secretary in the office
Like a man whose authority is sold out because of not been able to be a man

Is that one responsible compare to that single man?
Who know what he wants in life than he define it and chase it
Who knows how to keep himself pure from anything under the skirt
Who chases is dream rather than chase women of lose virtue
Who work legitimately and foot is bills, Is that man not responsible?

Let me tell you been responsible
Is not until one is married
Your been responsible when you are not married
Determines you become more responsible when you’re married
So please spear me that singles are responsible too